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Posted by hanging on on January 13, 2004, at 9:10:27
In reply to Re: Loosing my mind on Lex? - HELP , posted by KathrynLex on January 12, 2004, at 13:45:46
ok... I feel somewhat better today, but wow my stomach is messed up... feel like a drank the water in another country. I really feel like I need some support. I have so much going on right now that I don't know how I can have time to adapt to this new med while I have to work and live. Losing some fairly good weight. Probably 6lbs in the last 2 weeks. Feeling scattered. Day 7 of lex. Thanks to you all... I do hope someday I will be able to help others here and tell them it all worked out.
Posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 9:48:37
In reply to Re: Day 21 and a ? » sexylexy, posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 8:08:40
Oh Lexy, I am so with you honey!! My husband & I have known each other for 3 years and my hormonal stuff started not long after we met. I was so negative, cried a lot for no reason, was hyper-sensitive to everything and had lots of (irrational) anger. Many, many times I would tell him we needed to break up because dealing with my behaviors was not fair to him. We have issues, to be sure, but after being on Lex for 3 months (started at 10 mg, went up to 20 after 10 weeks), things are SO much better between us . . . and that is really because of a change in MY perceptions and his reactions to a happier me.
I'm not 100% the way I want to be, but I am much less negative, not so sad, definitely don't blow up as much and I'm not sensitive to everything he says and does. I still have a ways to go, but the things that are left are actually ME and things I need to work on - not hormonally induced negativities.
Hang in there & take care of yourself, you will start seeing changes soon, I am sure!
~ Lynne
Posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 9:54:04
In reply to Re: Loosing my mind on Lex? - HELP , posted by hanging on on January 12, 2004, at 21:25:57
Hanging on -
The upset stomach is common at first. I had all sorts of gastrointestinal surprises the first couple of weeks! Then, when I went from 10 to 20 mg. they re-visited a bit. From all who've posted here, it takes a few weeks for your body to adjust.Please hang in there, the results for me and many others have been worth it: feeling kind of normal again, without lots of sadness or anger, and the ability to be a part of the world again :-).
~ Lynne
Posted by KathrynLex on January 13, 2004, at 11:05:36
In reply to Day 21 and a ?, posted by sexylexy on January 12, 2004, at 21:17:50
Hi Lexy,
I'm so glad to hear that you're feeling better. Even though you're outside your comfort zone again, I think it's a huge accomplishment that you're willing to step outside of it.
It's good that the hypersensitivity and crying are going away. (I've experienced the same thing.) I think that your negative thinking will ease up as you become less depressed, and that will help your relationship. You'll stop worrying about whether or not he's better off without you. Instead, you'll find that you have the energy to spend time with him and do things together that you enjoy.
I've found that I'm starting to have the energy to do small things to help maintain my relationship and it's made a big difference. For the past several months I'd been withdrawing and not spending any time with my boyfriend, but lately I want to go out and do things with him. It's made both of us a lot happier in our relationship.
I hope you start seeing improvements in your relationship soon. My guess is that you will. I'm rooting for you!
K.
Posted by KathrynLex on January 13, 2004, at 11:12:20
In reply to Re: Loosing my mind on Lex? - HELP , posted by hanging on on January 12, 2004, at 21:25:57
Hi Hanging On,
I lost several pounds the first few weeks I took Lex. I'm on day 25 of 10 mg of Lex and my appetite has slowly started coming back. Don't be too concerned with your upset stomach unless it's causing you pain for an extended period of time. If it does, you might want to check with your doc.
How long did you say you've been on Lex? For me, the first two weeks were very difficult (made easier with the support of the wonderful people on this board!) and I noticed a significant improvement in side effects/mood by week 3. Hang on for a few weeks to give your body time to adjust. Even though it's difficult, it is worth it!
K.
Posted by John2222 on January 13, 2004, at 11:25:40
In reply to Re: Loosing my mind on Lex? - HELP » hanging on, posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 9:54:04
Is Lexapro (and other SSRI's) a cause of sleep problems? I'm only taking 5mg of Lexapro and yet like clockwork, I go to sleep easily at 10pm, then wake up 4 hours later. I read or watch tv for an hour, then get sleepy again, and sleep for another 4 hours. Net effect is 8 hours/night.
I think I read somewhere that SSRI's affect REM sleep patterns (not sure what that is exactly).
Anyone else having the 4 hour cycle?
Posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 11:39:53
In reply to Re: Lexapro SLEEP problems ??, posted by John2222 on January 13, 2004, at 11:25:40
They're missing.
For people who have been on lex for a long time, do they ever come back to normal, or come back to 50%, or come back 70% but they're different, or...?
I'm on 20mg, with 300 mg wellbutrin.
Posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 11:45:59
In reply to Orgasms on the side of milk cartons, posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 11:39:53
3 months on Lex and they're rare or take a long time. I'm female and prior to this they were absolutely not a problem! I miss them too.
~ Lynne
Posted by sexylexy on January 13, 2004, at 12:41:39
In reply to Re: Orgasms on the side of milk cartons, posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 11:45:59
Hi Guys,
Thanks for the relationship support. I want so much to get better so that my boyfriend and I can continue what we had. Ya'lls stories of rediscovering that such a hope to me! As I look back I realize that things are getting better. I just don't feel that light, happy warm feeling I used to have. Its like my depression took away my ability to feel satisfied and content. Anyone else experienced this? I am praying to get there!
As for orgasms on the side of the milk carton, I too feel that it takes me longer to get there. I am thankful that the desire to get there and be physical with my boyfriend is still well in tact. Is everyone elses desire stayed the same as you have progressed. I think of few things worse than not wanting to kiss or hold my boyfriend (besides being terribly depressed of course!)
Thinking of you all!
Lexy
Posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 12:54:10
In reply to Re: Orgasms on the side of milk cartons, posted by sexylexy on January 13, 2004, at 12:41:39
Lexy - Yes! Desire is still there, thank goodness! I agree about the feeling less satisfied and content, but that will change as time goes on. I am definitely much happier and have warm feelings more frequently than I used to (I'm at 3 months). I'm still a little cautious to accept this new state of well-being - I keep expecting it to go away. But as every week goes by, I feel more comfortable with it. You will get there, just hang in there and look for the small improvements in your behaviors each week!
~ Lynne
Posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 13:06:57
In reply to Re: Orgasms on the side of milk cartons, posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 12:54:10
But wait Lynne! You didn't answer the question of whether / how much the orgasm capability / experience comes back, if it does.
> Lexy - Yes! Desire is still there, thank goodness! I agree about the feeling less satisfied and content, but that will change as time goes on. I am definitely much happier and have warm feelings more frequently than I used to (I'm at 3 months). I'm still a little cautious to accept this new state of well-being - I keep expecting it to go away. But as every week goes by, I feel more comfortable with it. You will get there, just hang in there and look for the small improvements in your behaviors each week!
> ~ Lynne
Posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 13:15:16
In reply to Re: Orgasms on the side of milk cartons, posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 13:06:57
Sorry, it was actually in a previous post :-). I am still having trouble in that area - takes a looong time unfortunately. They are not as intense. This is not the norm for me at all! But, they are there now and sometimes they last longer than they used to, which is something new.
In the long run though, it's less important to me because I'm happier in other areas of my life. It bothers my husband more than me cuz it makes him feel somehow inadequate! I've heard Wellbutrin helps them come back, but I'm not ready to add another drug to the mix quite yet!
My counselor gave me all sorts of advice to help with this issue since she's on an SSRI too. I've never had to work at sex though, so it was kind of weird!
Good luck, be patient. . . everyone reacts differently in this area!
~ Lynne
Posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 13:50:18
In reply to Re: Orgasms on the side of milk cartons, posted by LynneDa on January 13, 2004, at 13:15:16
When I added Wellbutrin to the Lex, the orgasm's came back, but not nearly as often. Erections are NO PROB! However, when I do orgasm, they're longer & more intense - almost worth the wait.
I don't know if it's because that Lex SE was wearing off, or it was from adding the Wellbutrin. You've been on Lex long enough that I think you would know a difference if you added Wellbutrin. Maybe you should try it? Let us know?> Sorry, it was actually in a previous post :-). I am still having trouble in that area - takes a looong time unfortunately. They are not as intense. This is not the norm for me at all! But, they are there now and sometimes they last longer than they used to, which is something new.
>
> In the long run though, it's less important to me because I'm happier in other areas of my life. It bothers my husband more than me cuz it makes him feel somehow inadequate! I've heard Wellbutrin helps them come back, but I'm not ready to add another drug to the mix quite yet!
>
> My counselor gave me all sorts of advice to help with this issue since she's on an SSRI too. I've never had to work at sex though, so it was kind of weird!
>
> Good luck, be patient. . . everyone reacts differently in this area!
> ~ Lynne
>
Posted by Alain on January 13, 2004, at 14:09:55
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro » Bill435, posted by Mariposa on November 27, 2003, at 15:16:25
Hi everyone, Just started lexapro 4 days ago. Started with 5mgs. I take it at night. Gives me real bad headaches. Wake up feeling spacey and full of anxiety. Is anxiety a side effect of Lexapro? Does it go away? I was on Lexapro before and within 5 weeks I was feeling pretty good. I don't remember it making me anxious. Would appreciate any advice...
Posted by hanging on on January 13, 2004, at 14:22:07
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by Alain on January 13, 2004, at 14:09:55
> Hi everyone, Just started lexapro 4 days ago. Started with 5mgs. I take it at night. Gives me real bad headaches. Wake up feeling spacey and full of anxiety. Is anxiety a side effect of Lexapro? Does it go away? I was on Lexapro before and within 5 weeks I was feeling pretty good. I don't remember it making me anxious. Would appreciate any advice...
Hi, well I'm not the voice of experience on day 7 of lex, but I had bad headaches at the start. Took ibuprofen (2-200mg) and that helped alot. Not having them much at all anymore. Did have the morning anxiety real bad too. Don't know if it was due to the lex because I have had that before on and off effexor.
On day 7 and feeling a little better except for extreme gastro problems that I think are going a little away (with some immodium-ad). I guess the only thing to do is treat the symptoms until we get over the hump... and support each other. :-)
Posted by hanging on on January 13, 2004, at 14:24:54
In reply to Re: Loosing my mind on Lex? - HELP , posted by KathrynLex on January 13, 2004, at 11:12:20
> Hi Hanging On,
>
> I lost several pounds the first few weeks I took Lex. I'm on day 25 of 10 mg of Lex and my appetite has slowly started coming back. Don't be too concerned with your upset stomach unless it's causing you pain for an extended period of time. If it does, you might want to check with your doc.
>
> How long did you say you've been on Lex? For me, the first two weeks were very difficult (made easier with the support of the wonderful people on this board!) and I noticed a significant improvement in side effects/mood by week 3. Hang on for a few weeks to give your body time to adjust. Even though it's difficult, it is worth it!
>
> K.
only been on lex for 7 days... very much in need of the support from this forum and thankful for it. Its difficult not to hope for a miracle with this drug when you feel so bad.C.
Posted by Esmarelda on January 13, 2004, at 14:25:18
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by hanging on on January 13, 2004, at 14:22:07
I have been on Lex for 7 months. I did not really have any side effects except for some loss of appetite and nausea. I did feel more depressed and anxious before I got better. At week 5 or so, the Lex really kicked in and I felt a lot better. Hang in there!
Posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 14:28:17
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by Esmarelda on January 13, 2004, at 14:25:18
7 months?! Can you answer the orgasm question from the previous post. It sure would be nice to know what to expect 7 months out. Please?
> I have been on Lex for 7 months. I did not really have any side effects except for some loss of appetite and nausea. I did feel more depressed and anxious before I got better. At week 5 or so, the Lex really kicked in and I felt a lot better. Hang in there!
Posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 14:32:26
In reply to Re: Loosing my mind on Lex? - HELP , posted by hanging on on January 13, 2004, at 14:24:54
Esmarelda, hang in there. What I did was take 30 mg my first day. Man, did I think that was a mistake, I really suffered for 3 days. But you know what? That seems to have made it very noticably kick in within 8 days. Man was that a relief! I was at the very very end of my rope!
> only been on lex for 7 days... very much in need of the support from this forum and thankful for it. Its difficult not to hope for a miracle with this drug when you feel so bad.
>
> C.
Posted by Kim B. on January 13, 2004, at 14:33:27
In reply to Re: Lexapro SLEEP problems ??, posted by John2222 on January 13, 2004, at 11:25:40
> Is Lexapro (and other SSRI's) a cause of sleep problems? I'm only taking 5mg of Lexapro and yet like clockwork, I go to sleep easily at 10pm, then wake up 4 hours later. I read or watch tv for an hour, then get sleepy again, and sleep for another 4 hours. Net effect is 8 hours/night.
>
> I think I read somewhere that SSRI's affect REM sleep patterns (not sure what that is exactly).
>
Hi,I also experience the 4 hour sleep cycle but it doesn't seem too hard to fall back to sleep so I just go with it. I have noticed in the mornings though that I feel very groggy or spacy and nauseated, does anyone know if this would still be a side effect of the Lexapro this would be week 5 for me. ( I have just switched to 10mg vs the 5 mg a week ago) Thanks to any one who can help.
Posted by Jayslace on January 13, 2004, at 14:35:49
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 14:28:17
I'm having excellent luck with my Lex. I was on the 10mg for at least 4 months. Now on 20mg since Jan 1st. That took me for a loop by making me so tired and feeling like a robot. But for the last few days I have been doing lots better. And , just the 10mg itself pulled me out of a deep, suicidal ideation depression. I don't feel anxiety so much, I feel more energetic I would call it. All in all, I'm all for the Lex. And we're all here to help us all get past these side effects.
Stick with it if you can.
Ruthie
Posted by sexylexy on January 13, 2004, at 14:44:45
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by Alain on January 13, 2004, at 14:09:55
Welcome to Lexapro~
No just kidding, I can tell you that Lexapro is not the most fun thing to get over side effects of but little by little they will begin to go away. I was so spacey the other day that I wanted to quite and now its cleared up some.... I am only 22 days in but I think you should stick it out. Use the board for support these people are wonderful and offer inspiring stories which make the wait worth it!
Good luck
Lexy
Posted by Esmarelda on January 13, 2004, at 14:46:36
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by Gaza on January 13, 2004, at 14:28:17
I am not sure that I can really be helpful, Gaza. I have noticed that it is more difficult, but during this time period, I have also broken up with my significant other and I don't have much drive if you know what I mean so it's hard to tell whether it's me or the Lex. I wish I could help you. I didn't notice it affecting my drive or the big O at first.
Posted by Esmarelda on January 13, 2004, at 14:47:41
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by sexylexy on January 13, 2004, at 14:44:45
I think it will be worth it to you, lexy.
Posted by KathrynLex on January 13, 2004, at 15:14:30
In reply to Re: I'm leaning towards no on Lexapro, posted by Alain on January 13, 2004, at 14:09:55
Hi Alain,
The first few days I took Lexapro it made me fairly anxious. (I'm on day 25 of 10 mg of Lex) The anxiety went away by the beginning of the third week. I felt extremely out of it, very "spacey" until just recently.
I would give it 5 weeks, since that is how long it took for you to feel good when you were on it before. So far, the side effects you have experienced are fairly common. Yes, they're unpleasant, but worth getting through so you can feel better. Good luck!
K.
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